Bukkake. Believed to have originated in Japanese pornographic films in the early '80s, this practice involves having a person's body (usually a woman) covered with as much cum as possible, although it may also refer to ejaculating on a person’s face or in their open mouth. While the female participant tends to take a submissive role, some women who have experienced bukkake say they feel empowered by being the center of attention during this sexual activity.

We had a chat with a female member on SpicyMatch who has a penchant for attending Bukkake parties. She shared her views on what makes this fetish enjoyable for her and also some advice on any person wanting to have a go at it.

SpicyMatch: Hello, thank you for your time to speak to us about this. First of all let me compliment you for your skin. It looks so soft and radiant.

Party Girl: Oh yes that's the cum. Bukkake does wonders for your skin. Everyone often comments on the smoothness of my skin, particularly on my boobs and face.

SpicyMatch: But what if it gets in your eye?

Party Girl: Make sure it doesn’t and there's also the risk of catching STDs. Communication is key; they will tell youwhen they're about to cum, giving me the chance to move my head to protect my eyes. Afterward, I use eyewash as a precaution. If I'm not wearing glasses, I will tell them, "Cum on my tits.” I am in control, I tell them where and when they can cum. If a guy nods that he's ready to cum, I can ask him to wait, and he'll wait, even if he's bursting.

SpicyMatch: How do you get ready for a bukkake party?

Party Girl: I love wearing slutty, miniskirt, high heels. A lot of the guys love it. Don’t bother wearing lingerie since I don’t want it covered in cum. I also apply a little more makeup, but I opt for inexpensive products since it's likely to be ruined. Some guys enjoy seeing makeup smudging. I initially set it with hairspray, but as the night progresses, the more disheveled it appears, the more they appreciate it.

SpicyMatch: How is the whole experience? Do you enjoy it?

Party Girl: Yeah I love it! I have had done about 12 bukkake parties. The most I had where 14 guys. After cumming, the guys usually take a short break before having a go again, but sometimes the whole thing is over within ten minutes. As they are near to cumming, the guys get closer. I usually have two or three near me, engaging in some dirty talk while they wank onto my face. I tend to avoid giving blowjobs if they haven't been tested; instead, I use my skilled hands to satisfy them. It's a fulfilling feeling afterward, realizing I've made all those guys cum and they're happy and I'm happy.'

SpicyMatch: What makes you go for it again and again?

Party Girl: I think it’s my submissive part.

SpicyMatch: How about the guys?

Party Girl: They're wonderful. Before the party, they send messages to the organiser like, "I'm looking forward to seeing her.” Hygiene is crucial; everyone is very clean, and there's a mutual respect for each other's well-being. If something seems off, I'll discreetly inform an organizer. I avoid rudeness and never aim to embarrass anyone. If I notice an issue, I'll politely state, "Sorry, but I can't play with you," Some attendees are significantly overweight and seek companionship more than anything else. They simply desire a cuddle and someone to talk to, often without the expectation of sex.

SpicyMatch: How do you take care of your sexual health?

Party Girl: I have sexual health checks every 30 days. The process takes about an hour, and I receive results within five days. The examination includes swabs and HIV testing. However, it's essential to note that tests alone don't guarantee safety; someone could test negative and engage in unprotected sex the same night. I have started asking for guys attending a party to get tested before and show us the most recent negative results.

SpicyMatch: Thanks for sharing your story with our SpicyMatch followers.

Party Girl: My pleasure!